Why I Choose to Leave and What it Taught Me

Why I Chose to Leave—and What That Taught Me
Leaving a workplace—especially one where you've invested time, energy, and passion—is never an easy decision. But sometimes, the environment just isn’t the right fit anymore, and quietly enduring it starts to come at a cost.
So I left. I've done it before and I may do it again. I’m reinventing myself in a new place, in a new season. As I often tell my daughters, “It’s only a moment in time.”
Right now, what’s coming up for me is the rebuild. The refresh.
I’ve been really lucky—grateful, even. Most of my clients followed me. For the ones who haven’t, I see it as space being made for new connections, fresh energy, and maybe a few surprises.
This morning I came in early to do a blowout for one of my regulars before her big meeting. Honestly? It was just what I needed. I’m an overthinker and a worrier, so working with my hands and easing into the day in a quiet salon is the kind of peace that sets me straight.
Now her appointment’s done, and I’m sitting here with my coffee, watching the early risers heading toward Bean. Fisgard is a happening little spot in the morning—actually, it’s busy all day long.
And here’s the weird thing I’ve been wondering: Was the last salon just too easy for me?
I think I was missing a challenge. Being an independent stylist again is pushing me outside of my comfort zone—and maybe that’s exactly what I needed.
I used to jokingly call myself the Fixen Vixen with my old coworkers. I was the one who fixed things: botched colors, challenging personalities, re-dos, last-minute requests. If there was a problem, I was usually the one asked to sort it out.
And if I’m honest, I liked it. I like being the one who figures it out. I like the pressure, the problem-solving, the satisfaction of turning something around. I’ve probably had a misstep or two in my 35-year career (who hasn’t?), but overall, I know I’ve made a difference—and I know I’m good at what I do.
That’s something I’m finally starting to say out loud. Not with ego, but with earned confidence. There’s a difference, and I’m learning to own it.
Building this next chapter of my career isn’t just about a new location. It’s about rediscovering my voice. It’s about showing up with more clarity, purpose, and direction—not just for my clients, but for myself.
And here’s where it all ties together:
That clarity is what makes me a stronger leader. It’s also what’s led me into consulting.
After years of building salons, mentoring stylists, and navigating every high and low this industry can throw at you, I’ve realized that my real gift—my superpower—is helping others rise.
I’ve seen burnout. I’ve felt stagnation. I’ve been the one holding it all together behind the scenes. And I know what a difference the right guidance, support, or conversation can make when you’re stuck in survival mode.
Whether it’s rebuilding a business, creating a healthier salon culture, finding your niche, or just needing a grounded perspective from someone who’s been there—I’m here for that.
I’ve lived it. I’m still living it. And I love helping other stylists and salon owners carve out something that’s not just “successful,” but sustainable.
So yeah—leaving was hard. But it led me here. And here feels right.





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